“Closeness” in Spiritual Terms

In the physical world things that are physically near to each other are said to be “close” to each other. For example, an apple is 5″ from the bowl. They are close to each other.

But what does it mean to be “close” in spiritual terms?

(The answer is very fascinating and I hope you enjoy it half as much as I do.)

Closeness in spirituality means ‘similarity of form‘ and distance in spirituality is the ‘disparity of form’.

For example, two people who have very similar ideas and interests are considered “close”. We can relate to this idea — it is simple and easy to understand.

Alternatively, two people who hate the other person’s ideas and interests are considered “distant” from each other.

In the Thirteen Attributes of Mercy, G-d is known to be compassionate, gracious, forgiving, slow to anger, and more. When we behave with compassion or forgiveness then we are said to be “close” to G-d.

In Derech Hashem, the Ramchal says that G-d created the world so He could bestow/give good to another — his creations. Similarly, when we give to others whether it’s charity, encouragement, or a listening ear then we are said to be “close” to G-d.

I believe that reframing ideas of teshuvah, change and “closeness” gives Elul — and life — a full-color spectrum of improvement possibilities that are meaningful and encouraging.